Thursday Thought: Giving, Receiving, Exchanging

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Am I a giver, or an exchanger?

Reciprocity is important, but there are times of sheer giving.

I give without focus on what I will obtain from the receiver. When I share with thoughts of reciprocity, I am exchanging.

How much giving do I practice? How much exchanging do I practice?

Have I found the balance that makes life sweet?

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