tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post6067020756142414538..comments2024-03-13T19:10:53.441-04:00Comments on paravanes:meditations: Parental Alienation Awareness Day, April 25Deborah Evanshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08356558964613496230noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-56704676737278053832009-05-06T12:37:00.000-04:002009-05-06T12:37:00.000-04:00Thank you for your comments. I hoped the post woul...Thank you for your comments. I hoped the post would increase awareness and give some encouragement to parents (mothers and fathers, not just fathers) who feel isolated by parental alienation.<br /><br />PA (parental alienation) victimizes women, men, and children. There are no winners because the injured suffer and the injurers learn a false lesson: they can "win" by hurting someone else.Deborah Evanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08356558964613496230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-2124247906445197102009-05-06T12:18:00.000-04:002009-05-06T12:18:00.000-04:00Thank you for your blog post regarding Parental Al...Thank you for your blog post regarding Parental Alienation. For people who have never experienced PA, it does seem "a bit far fetched". However for those of us who live day to day, year to year in the darkness of Parental Alienation, it does not take an expert to tell us of the toll taken on lives and relationships between parents and children !Rindas 2 Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077652068882587193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-80332732652343268442009-04-22T13:11:00.000-04:002009-04-22T13:11:00.000-04:00I am glad you are able to define yourself as a sur...I am glad you are able to define yourself as a survivor.It takes a lot to move from victim to survivor. My hope and prayer is for you and your daughter to find a way to rebuild your relationship. <br /><br />I have witnessed parental alienation and know it is real and life-changing. Let's continue to get the word out. Thank you for your comments.Deborah Evanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08356558964613496230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-87314566916321958992009-04-22T12:35:00.000-04:002009-04-22T12:35:00.000-04:00Thank you for this blog. If anyone needs more info...Thank you for this blog. If anyone needs more information on PAS you can ask me. I am a survivor and my affected daughter has not been able to speak with me for the past seventeen years. She is 23 now. Justice for Children did this to us. Beware of them in the courtrooms as they reject PAS. If you get them against you please contact me> I will help you against them.Robert Gartnernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-38110383416929316852009-04-21T16:32:00.000-04:002009-04-21T16:32:00.000-04:00I am very happy for you that things worked out as ...I am very happy for you that things worked out as well as they did and you can say of yourself, "I've turned out ok."<br />Yes, some children are strong enough to resist the brainwashing and that is a great thing. My prayers are for those who can't manage all of this. Even while resisting, damage is done. I'm really challenging the adults to re-direct their pain and save as much of a child's innocence as possible.<br /><br />Thanks for your comments.Deborah Evanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08356558964613496230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7575091289642272420.post-45926124843536316282009-04-21T08:41:00.000-04:002009-04-21T08:41:00.000-04:00When my parents separated when I was eleven, my mo...When my parents separated when I was eleven, my mom did her best to alienate me from my father. But when I went to live with him, he wasn't too keen on me being there either. Anyway, it wasn't until I was an adult, that I could see both sides of the story, and became close to my father. Basically, they married for the wrong reasons. I've turned out okay, and have been for quite a while. But this behavior can be quite destructive. Imagine what happens when the child doesn't accept the brainwashing; and some don't. Children can be as strong willed as many adults.saharahttp://www.sistahcraft.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.com